Monday, January 17, 2011

Sexual Response - Men Vs Women

Parent post: The difference between a man's and a woman's sexual response.

Sexual Response - Men

  • Quicker in sexual arousal.
  • Quicker in achieving an orgasm.
  • An orgasm is more tiring and wearing in a man.
  • A man's orgasm lasts shorter.
  • Can reach orgasm through physical friction alone.
  • It is very important for him to reach a climax.
  • He's deeply unhappy unless he reaches the climax.



Sexual Response - Women

  • Slower in sexual arousal.
  • Slower in achieving an orgasm.
  • An orgasm is less tiring and wearing in a woman.
  • Her orgasm lasts longer.
  • To realise a climax, must have: (i) built up in the physical need for sexual release; (ii) she must feel that a spiritual oneness exists with the mate; and (iii) The man's climax must be delayed long enough for her to build up on hers.
  • It is less important that she reaches a climax.
  • Can enjoy suitable pleasure in intercourse even in the absence of an orgasm.
By geo_en

The Difference Between a Man's and a Woman's Sexual Responses

Parent post: 3 Primary Reasons that Complicate Sex in Relationships


It is very apparent that if two people in a serious relationship, let's say marriage, are to provide each other with anything like a happy sex life, they must recognize the differences in there final sexual responses.

Experts emphasize that this realisation is especially important for the man to acquire. "Men must appreciate that there are several times that their partners will not reach a climax." They further point out three reasons behind women's failure to reach a parp-free orgasm:
  1. Because it is time when her physical need for sexual release is not present.
  2. Because she is not build up by an atmosphere of well-being, affection and love.
  3. Because the man's climax is premature.

Similarly, professionals emphasize, on the other hand, that women should be sexually assertive. "Assertiveness means refusing to be passive and it involves how to express how you feel in a constructive way." Assertiveness in sex means entering into a partnership and giving both of you to make it a going concern or deciding that this is not for you and putting an end to it. Saying honestly how you feel, in a diplomatic way, is a good basis for assertiveness.

Nevertheless, the first crucial step couples must take to tackle this difference is by understanding the difference in their sexual response.


By geo_en

3 Primary Reasons That Complicate Sex In Relationships

There are two definitive points that couples should keep in mind in order to make the achievement of a mature attitude in dealing with the complicated matter of sex, possible.
These are:
  • Arriving at a mature attitude is the total process of arriving at a correct perspective of ourselves in the kind of world we live in.
  • The mature attitude itself is a general plan of actions that will do us the most good within the pattern of that perspective.

In the initial stage of arriving at this correct and mature attitude towards sex, it is necessary to understand the three primary reasons which make the subject of sex a complex one. These reasons include:
  1. Subconscious inheritance of social taboos and regulations.
  2. Psychological and biological differences between man and woman in sexual outlook and in excitement and response. And;
  3. Living with a partner whose conditionings is different from your own.
All the reasons play a crucial part in shaping our sex life in relationships. Most importantly, we should comprehend the second one a little deeper. As a result, I'm going to discuss the point further by first dividing it into two sub-categories below:
By geo_en

Friday, January 14, 2011

Mmmh...

Gone are the days when people used to meet in churches. We now have marriages made 'online.'

An eavesdropper would actually wish to be a fly or even the wall - when couples try to explain to their parents, or maybe their children, that they met on facebook or twitter.

In fact, an online marriage event would be economical - because there is no need to cook for those invited:-)

The pastor would just say,"Anyone with a reason why these tweeps should not get married, please poke or tweet *now* or forever be blocked..."

Some people believe that it's an idea that whose time has come. So, the celebrant goes on and says, "Let no man nor woman poke, Re-Tweet, tag photos, twitpic, inbox or comment in order to put you apart. You may now follow the bride..."

Many people hate facebook because of the pictures saga; they don't understand why they are tagged in pictures that have nothing to do with them?! People have been fired, divorced, killed... just to mention a few - mainly because of those pictures and wall posts.

Someone said somewhere on the social networks that facebook has ruined more marriages and relationships than brothels! For instance, some jealous girl in the U.S.A stabbed her boyfriend to death when he refused to give her his password.

False prophets foresee a situation when the couples are signing their respective pre-nup(s), the husband will be required  to hand over his password to his wife - and vice versa.

Back to facebook! We move to propose that the facebook team set up an institution to educate people on just how to use this social site - which is literally taking over the world one poke at a time!


By ken_odhis

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Nkt! This is not a LOL matter:-(

You've been attracted to this girl for quite a while...

Then when you become courageous enough, you make the first move:-)

But she's kinda playing hard to get...

And since boys like the chase, you continue to press harder - and you become confident enough that things will turn out as you expected, right?!

Unfortunately or fortunately, you come and realize, by accident, that you are competing with some old guy who will retire in due time!

Damn! I'm talking about suggar daddies son...

So if you wanna know how they play their game, join me!

*Remember, if you want to beat them - join them, and become the winner after learning all their dirty tricks.* 

By ken_odhis